My Nemesis

My nemesis is no doubt my mother. For more reasons than one she always has been and always will be. We fight as if we are teh worsdt of enemies and we laugh as if we are the best of friends. I always denyed it when I was younger and people said that we are just a like. How could I be just like this woman who drives me nuts?! Well turns out we are exactly the same. As I grow older and we learn more about eachother, I find that this is a learning process for both of us.

My mothers parents were both dead by the time she was my age so she can't really say that she knows how I feel about dealing with a pressuring mother during college years. And I know more times like this will come that she isn't farmiliar with because as she came to these benchmarks in her life, she didn't have a mother. As I come to them, they will be new expieriences. So we will both be learning and growing together.

Although her parents were alive for her wedding, she didn't have a big wedding by any means(she was 17. No big wedding for people who get married that young). But when my wedding comes, it will be huge and there will be a lot to deal with that she didn't do for herself or have a mother help her do so I feel that will be out next major battle. Thankfully, I have a few years to prepare for it. But I kow we will fight on all different topics concerning my wedding and I know that we will grow closer in doing so. We both take the bad of each other to see the good of us together. I feel as though there isn't any better definition of my nemeisis than my mother.